Thursday, May 31, 2007
谁还记得
是谁先说永远的爱我
以前的一句话
是我们以后的伤口
过了太久
没人记得当初那些温柔
我和你手牵手
说要一起走到最后
我们都忘了
这条路走了多久
心中是清楚的
有一天有一天都会停的
让时间说真话
虽然我也害怕
在天黑了以后
我们都不知道会不会有遗憾
谁还记得
是谁先说永远的爱我
以前的一句
是我们以后的伤口
过了太久
没人记得当初那些温柔
我和你手牵手
说要一起走到最后
我们都累了
却没办法往回走
两颗心都迷惑
怎么说怎么说都没有救
亲爱的为什么
也许你也不懂
两个相爱的人
等对方先说找分开的理由
谁还记得爱情开始变化的时候
我和你的眼中
看见了不同的天空
走的太远
终于走到分岔路的路口
是不是你和我
要有两个相反的梦
谁还记得
是谁先说永远的爱我
以前的一句话
是我们以后的伤口
过了太久
没人记得当初那些温柔
我和你手牵手
说要一起走到最后
我和你手牵手
说要一起走到最后
i find that the lyric of this song is so true to most relationship. actually from my point of view, in every relationship, there will be a point that both parties are heading towards different direction of life as everyone got there own dreams. and at this point, whether the relationship is able to continue has to depend how strong the foundation is and who is willing to give up his/her path and follow the other partner.
though there's lots of breaking up happening everyday, but i believe there are relationship that work out right and has a happy ending. (:
je t'aime
-lydiia
是谁先说永远的爱我
以前的一句话
是我们以后的伤口
过了太久
没人记得当初那些温柔
我和你手牵手
说要一起走到最后
我们都忘了
这条路走了多久
心中是清楚的
有一天有一天都会停的
让时间说真话
虽然我也害怕
在天黑了以后
我们都不知道会不会有遗憾
谁还记得
是谁先说永远的爱我
以前的一句
是我们以后的伤口
过了太久
没人记得当初那些温柔
我和你手牵手
说要一起走到最后
我们都累了
却没办法往回走
两颗心都迷惑
怎么说怎么说都没有救
亲爱的为什么
也许你也不懂
两个相爱的人
等对方先说找分开的理由
谁还记得爱情开始变化的时候
我和你的眼中
看见了不同的天空
走的太远
终于走到分岔路的路口
是不是你和我
要有两个相反的梦
谁还记得
是谁先说永远的爱我
以前的一句话
是我们以后的伤口
过了太久
没人记得当初那些温柔
我和你手牵手
说要一起走到最后
我和你手牵手
说要一起走到最后
i find that the lyric of this song is so true to most relationship. actually from my point of view, in every relationship, there will be a point that both parties are heading towards different direction of life as everyone got there own dreams. and at this point, whether the relationship is able to continue has to depend how strong the foundation is and who is willing to give up his/her path and follow the other partner.
though there's lots of breaking up happening everyday, but i believe there are relationship that work out right and has a happy ending. (:
je t'aime
-lydiia
Lydia will treasure and cherish., 12:23 AM.
Wednesday, May 30, 2007
Looking in the mirror
when we look in the mirror, the one thing we don't want to see is an ordinary human being. We would like to see someone special. Whether we are conscious of this or not, we are simply not content to see an ordinary human being with neuroses, obstacles and problems.
We want to see a happy person, but instead we see someone who is struggling. We want to think of ourselves as compassionate, but instead we see someone who is selfish. We long to be elegant, but our arrogance makes us crass. And instead of a strong or immortal person, we see someone who is vulnerable to the four streams of birth, old age, sickness and death. The conflict between what we see and what we want to see causes tremendous pain.
The perfect love we seek, the imperfect love we live
love is what we most long to give and to receive, yet our intimate relationships are often conflicted and painful. psychologist john welwood says that one of our problems is failing to distinguish between absolute and relative love. seeking perfect, unconditional love, we are wounded by the imperfect and variable love we receive, beginning with our parents. But what we are looking for is not found through others, but in our own capacity to love.
-parts from the book, The Best Buddhist Writing 2006
-lydiia
when we look in the mirror, the one thing we don't want to see is an ordinary human being. We would like to see someone special. Whether we are conscious of this or not, we are simply not content to see an ordinary human being with neuroses, obstacles and problems.
We want to see a happy person, but instead we see someone who is struggling. We want to think of ourselves as compassionate, but instead we see someone who is selfish. We long to be elegant, but our arrogance makes us crass. And instead of a strong or immortal person, we see someone who is vulnerable to the four streams of birth, old age, sickness and death. The conflict between what we see and what we want to see causes tremendous pain.
The perfect love we seek, the imperfect love we live
love is what we most long to give and to receive, yet our intimate relationships are often conflicted and painful. psychologist john welwood says that one of our problems is failing to distinguish between absolute and relative love. seeking perfect, unconditional love, we are wounded by the imperfect and variable love we receive, beginning with our parents. But what we are looking for is not found through others, but in our own capacity to love.
-parts from the book, The Best Buddhist Writing 2006
-lydiia
Lydia will treasure and cherish., 9:12 PM.
Friday, May 25, 2007
sometimes, i think we should learn to love ourselves more because life is short.
being a student nurse now, i've listen to many stories that make me think that i'm so much fortunate to those people out there, who have no one to love them and care for them. some even dun have the chance to continue their journey. come to think of it- i'm simply too fortunate !
i'm really happy with my life now. i have all i want and there are so many people who cares for me. i really have nothing to ask from anyone now.
i will learn to be more happy everyday and to tell myself no matter how difficult my path will be, i will work hard because this is what i choose to be- a outstanding obstetric nurse.
thanks to all my friends for all the support u have given me. i will never let you guys down. and with you guys around, i believe i will walk through all my obstacles.
more and more people are falling sick these few days, do take care people. drink more water ya. the weather is terrible !
*my life will be a wonderful one.
-lydiia
being a student nurse now, i've listen to many stories that make me think that i'm so much fortunate to those people out there, who have no one to love them and care for them. some even dun have the chance to continue their journey. come to think of it- i'm simply too fortunate !
i'm really happy with my life now. i have all i want and there are so many people who cares for me. i really have nothing to ask from anyone now.
i will learn to be more happy everyday and to tell myself no matter how difficult my path will be, i will work hard because this is what i choose to be- a outstanding obstetric nurse.
thanks to all my friends for all the support u have given me. i will never let you guys down. and with you guys around, i believe i will walk through all my obstacles.
more and more people are falling sick these few days, do take care people. drink more water ya. the weather is terrible !
*my life will be a wonderful one.
-lydiia
Lydia will treasure and cherish., 9:12 PM.
Lydia will treasure and cherish., 9:01 PM.
Sunday, May 20, 2007
jus anyhow edit. lols. nice? hahas. free to give some comment. i use paint to edit.
Lydia will treasure and cherish., 4:48 PM.
Wednesday, May 16, 2007
on monday, there is psychology lecture and the topic was partly on eating disorder. He show ask a video on it and i was really too shocking that my friends and i were all covering our mouth and tears seems to roll down from our eyes simply because we feel sad for them. really sad. the condition of them were all very very bad.
all of them are suffering from anorexia and bulimia. all of them are super super duper skinny. all the bones, the rib cage can all been seen. sometimes i jus dun understand. why do people will want to torture themselves. but sometimes i know they can't control too.
seeing those videos shown by my lecturer and some i find it through net, questions jus flash in. is beauty really important?
*other than respecting others, we need to respect ourselves too
-lydiia
all of them are suffering from anorexia and bulimia. all of them are super super duper skinny. all the bones, the rib cage can all been seen. sometimes i jus dun understand. why do people will want to torture themselves. but sometimes i know they can't control too.
seeing those videos shown by my lecturer and some i find it through net, questions jus flash in. is beauty really important?
*other than respecting others, we need to respect ourselves too
-lydiia
Lydia will treasure and cherish., 9:48 PM.
Sunday, May 13, 2007
it has been a long tim i last update my blog.
my ploy life has already start for one month and i've know lots of new friends and learn something super new that i've never learn before.
my class was a super high one with different people and each and ever one of ur has our very individual characteristic.
my nurse journey had started and i know it's gonna be tough but i will press on, to strive my best to serve those people in need of our help.
not forgetting my secondary galfriends. i'm always missing them badly and i hope they are all doing very fine now. hope to see them very very soon.
things are going to be different- the type of lifestyle i'm living in now. but there's one thing that will never change is the status of my family and friends in my heart and my dream that i'll try to achieve it.
*i'll make my life a good one (:
-lydiia
my ploy life has already start for one month and i've know lots of new friends and learn something super new that i've never learn before.
my class was a super high one with different people and each and ever one of ur has our very individual characteristic.
my nurse journey had started and i know it's gonna be tough but i will press on, to strive my best to serve those people in need of our help.
not forgetting my secondary galfriends. i'm always missing them badly and i hope they are all doing very fine now. hope to see them very very soon.
things are going to be different- the type of lifestyle i'm living in now. but there's one thing that will never change is the status of my family and friends in my heart and my dream that i'll try to achieve it.
*i'll make my life a good one (:
-lydiia
Lydia will treasure and cherish., 11:27 PM.
